selamat hari raya! later catch up pasal raya, i even more interested to post this topic "women".
Came across to read my oldschoolmate fb status about "knowing a girl".
Dear guy,
women is COMPLICATED. fullstop
if you choose to know deeper keep reading, if not, click "X" on the upper right of ur screen.
Facts about women/ girl
1.If they have no interest on you, they wont reply your msg, tweet, fb comment or return ur miscall/call. If they did, they just being flirty for a short time and later keep a distance. So kalau the reply is ala2 kadar means she have no interest.
2.If u ask them out, they'll give u tonnes of reasons if they do not have any feelings for u, but they'll happily jump if they like u.
3. If u stare or look at them, they'll smile randomly . But it doesnt mean they like you, senyum kan sedekah . Tak kan nak sombong pulak ye dak? haha If they have a crush or interest at you, even if u dont look , girl will steal a glance and stare at you. It was fun to curi pandang. Tapi kalau kantoi a girl know best how to cover :)
4.If u ask or their number when they dont like you, they wont give. I bet a guy was created with 9 akal, so dont let u look so desperate dude. Come on think on other way, try la being in the same club with them in university or help them . It takes time to make them realize ur existance. Seminggu dua tu tak cukup to make them realize you . haha Kalau brave enough be straight forward.
5. If u really serious fall for them, take it slowly, and try hard, make it like they naturally fall for u. Told ya women ni complicated, those who obviously try to tackle them, they wont even look. Why? tak mencabar la. Tarik tali tu lagi fun. Infact, they will know that u are serious.
6.Eventhough there are stubborn, but deep inside they have been created with such a soft heart. That's why they cried easily. Cry doesnt mean women ni lemah, sebenarnya diorg banyak sangat simpan dalam hati, kadang2 tak termampu nak tanggung so cry will make them stronger dan relieve their burden n stress. Most of the girl will try not to cry in front of a man. Cuz we have our ego too. Sometimes ego girl ni lagi tinggi dari guy but bcz of the soft heart Allah create tu make them lower their ego on certain circumstances. Especially bila diorg sayang something/somebody. Truestorey.
7. U'll know the girl characters from their closest girl friends. Kadang as a girl pun susah nak faham other girl. Cuz perempuan kan complicated, tak semua perangai sama. Ada yang ayu dan lembut sampai terlalu slowmo, ade yang cantik tapi garang, ade yg jinak merpati, ade yg cool dan independent, ade yg mommy's girl haih banyak la character. depends la, jangan la suka just pada rupa je, cuba buat kajian sikit sebelum suka tu.
8. Tak semua perempuan suka nak mintak benda kat bf diorg or kaki kikis. I dont know the view from org lain, but from what i see , my girl friends mostly tak macam tu. They are very tolerate sbb paham their partner tak keje lagi, so share2 la bayar kalau keluar. If sorg bayar tix wayang, another one maybe boleh consider kan bayar food. Or maybe nak buat bayar asing2. terpulang.
9.Tak semua perempuan nak bercouple2. They have tonnes of reason for this. U might see this girl single, not having any relationship with a guy. Tapi tak semestinya their heart tak di occupy with siapa2. Sometimes they choose to focus on other thing than love. Cuz love ni sacrifice. Happiness nye temporary and the rest is sacrifice. Kalau tak sanggup sacrifice they'll choose to be happy single :D . Lagipun UAI dah cakap couple to haram, it leads to many things yg x baik. A good girl for a good guy mcm tu la.
10. If u have thoughts in mind mcm just nak tackle a girl for fun, dont try to tackle perempuan yg susah nak dapat tu. Diorg pun bukan nye senang nak bagi hati diorg, so if tak serious forget it. Karang hati diorg broken, sape nak cantumkan balik. Senang for a guy to move on, tapi for a girl, they might take up to 10 years or more untuk get over the feeling of the guy they like. They could wait for so many years . Bukan senang nak suka org, nak ada perasaan kat org. As for me those feeling adalah dari hati, dan Allah pinjamkan perasaan tu. U would never have the same feeling for diff person.
Lawak ke der 2 pun harith iskandar ada cakap pasal women. well most of the thing yg harith cakap tu betul.
to be continued. . . . .
No comments:
Post a Comment