sleepy, but before i totally forget...
something i learnt from bff today is we have to be tegas . Sometimes we have to stop jaga hati org, yes we have to take care of their heart but at the same time we are hurting ourselves . no good aite . UNFAIR
Even though i've hold a position as a leader, but i can see that i didnt learn to shape up my self to be more strict leader . I'm organize but i'm not strict . As for me i see them as human that should be communicate nicely and i kept the dissapointment alone when they can give fully responsibility or didnt contribute . In group assignment i'm not firm enough to say what i DISLIKE about certain member . Cuz i'm looking them as friend,human and too much human consideration pun x boleh .
That's y some decision that i have to made with my bff i'll pass to her to speak out . I respect the way she being strict and tht strictness itself will make people respect and listen to u. GOOD . so any leader or leader to-be out there, u have to be strict even though with ur own friend.
Life process is about learning, perhaps in the future i will learn to be more strict,firm and tolerate depends on situation and reason.
About "jaga hati orang" so far i dont face much problem with this , tapi it wasn't an easy thing. Hope tak jugak in future .
kadang2 sebab jadi baik, people will harm u . So we should learn how to be tough and protect ourself better .
p/s: Too many people yang sakit lately. Get well ya . Take good care of yourself .
1 comment:
we can never be too nice to people pipah, nanti kena pijak kepala.
i face the same problem pasal group assignment tu.
tp atas dasar kawan, kena saba jela. haih i wish i am more stern so that people will listen to me.
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